Why Nice People Are Scary

IT SOUNDS SO PLAUSIBLE
Adjective
1.having an appearance of truth or reason; seemingly worthy of approval or acceptance; credible; believable: a plausible excuse; a plausible plot.
2.well-spoken and apparently, but often deceptively, worthy of confidence or trust: a plausible commentator.

WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO OUT
FOR A DRINK SOMETIME?

BEING CONVINCED
Уверенный
Убежденный

LOVABILITY
adjective
1.
of such a nature as to attract love; deserving love; amiable; endearing.
Amiable – любезный

PERSON’S AFFECTION
Noun
1.fond attachment, devotion, or love:
the affection of a parent for an only child.

UNNERVE
verb (used with object), unnerved, unnerving.
1.to deprive of courage, strength, determination, or confidence; upset:

THEIR NICENESS CAN BE SO UNSETTLING
Vex - беспокоить, досаждать
Agitate - волновать
to vex or agitate the mind or emotions of; upset; discompose:
The quarrel unsettled her.

PROFOUND
penetrating or entering deeply into subjects of thought or knowledge;
having deep insight or understanding:
a profound thinker.

HANG OUT

FIGURE OUT

ASSESSMENT
the act of assessing; appraisal; evaluation.

ALIGN
согласовать, согласовывать
Their assessment of us is more align with our assessment of ourselves.

HOLD AGAINST

OVERLOOKED
to fail to notice, perceive, or consider:
to overlook a misspelled word.

FREAK OUT

HANG ON IN THERE

The situations to discuss

YOU’RE CLEVER, YOU’RE PRETTY, YOU’RE FUNNY; WHY CAN’T YOU FIND THE RIGHT MAN/WOMEN?

THOUGH WE SAY WE NEED SOMEONE KIND AND NICE, IN PRACTICE IT’S PRETTY HARD TO DEAL WITH NICENESS WHEN IT DOES COME ALONG.

A TINY PART OF US MIGHT THINK: ‘IF THEY’RE ANY GOOD, WHY ARE THEY INTERESTED IN US?’

IF WE AREN’T TOTALLY CONVINCED OF OUR OWN LOVABILITY, ANOTHER PERSON’S AFFECTIONS COULD BE A BIT UNNERVING.

THEIR NICENESS CAN BE SO UNSETTLING YOU MIGHT EVEN TRY A TRICK OR TWO.

WE SHOULDN’T HOLD IT AGAINST NICE PEOPLE IF THEY LIKE US. MAYBE THEY SEE SOMETHING IN US WE’VE OVERLOOKED.

BUT YOU, THE NICE ONES, SHOULDN'T BE NAIVE EITHER. IT’S VERY FRIGHTENING TO HAVE A DEAL WITH NICENESS.

IT CAN BE UNFAMILIAR. IT CAN FREAK SOME IF US OUT.
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